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Money and Dating

Who Pays on a First Date? Common Money Myths

HCD Editorial Team

Survey data and scam reports, minus the folklore: what people actually think about who pays, splitting, expensive dates and money talk on a first date.

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Money and Dating

Before You Book a Trip With Someone New: A Checklist

HCD Editorial Team

A practical checklist for booking a trip with someone you just started dating: identity checks, money arrangements and exit plans before you pay.

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Money and Dating

Getting Started With Splitting Costs When You’re Dating

HCD Editorial Team

A beginner’s guide to splitting costs while dating casually: easy ways to divide a bill, how payment apps work, and when money requests become red flags.

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